There are few things more difficult to go through than feeling like you’re trapped in a marriage without love.. It can be even harder when you find yourself on the outside of that marriage, through divorce, trying desperately to find your back in and win his heart all over again. What you want right now, more than anything is to get your ex back and make him love you all over again.
In the final months of your marriage you would have given anything for your husband to look at you and really see you. You felt, for the longest time, as though he was looking right through you and not really seeing you there at all. You felt like an ornament on the wall that he never took notice of unless it was blocking his view of something else. You felt – unloved.
You tried all kinds of things to get his attention but all your efforts seemed to end in fights and/or tears. It was so frustrating for you and all you could do is wonder how the two of you came to this.
You have all kinds of questions floating around in your mind. What happened to the love that used to keep you up nights and keep you going through the next day? What can you do to make him really see you again? More importantly, is it too late?
What Happened to the Love?
The good news is that it didn’t just evaporate over night. He may have built a few walls to keep you out. But the odds are good that if her ever loved you (and most men don’t take a walk down the aisle unless they do), he still has some love left for you. This means that you still have a chance to make things work and get your ex back.
What can you do to make him See You Again?
This is the hard part for most women. You were confident, or at least a little more confident than you are now, of your ability to attract his attention when you met. You knew that he was interested in you and attracted to you. That knowledge was power for you to some degree. It gave you the confidence you needed to be even more attractive to him (it really is amazing how that works – confidence is something men are really attracted to in a woman).
But if you want him to really see you again, it isn’t often about how you look or even how you think you look. It’s going to be about how you make him feel. When you first started dating you did everything in your power to flatter and attract his attention. You laughed at his jokes, listened to his stories, and clung to his arm the entire time.
Recently you’ve tried to rush him to the punch line, groaned at his jokes, and rolled your eyes at his efforts to show you just how macho and virile he is. Even worse, you’ve started nagging and harassing him to do things for you that he doesn’t want to do or pointing out the things he hasn’t done. He feels disrespected and that’s one of the hardest things for a man to endure in his own home.
Is it too Late?
The best news you’re going to hear all day is that it is not too late to save your marriage. At least, not for the most part. As long as there is still a hint of love between the two of you, you have something to build on.
The key is in creating a plan to get your ex back that has a track record of success, or finding one to follow that has already helped more than 50,000 couples around the world (in 77 different countries) find success at getting back together. Are you ready to roll your sleeves up and dive in? Start by watching this FREE video.